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<p>A young <a target="_blank" href="http://gistreel.com/tag/nigerian-man" rel="noopener"><strong>Nigerian man</strong></a> narrates the reason he ended his relationship with his girlfriend who made hefty demands after refusing to live in the house he built.</p>
<p>A social media user identified as DemoofUK took to the microblogging platform, X to share a <strong>relationship of his that had a good start but ended poorly</strong>.</p>
<p>According to the young man, he had already built his house before meeting the lady but because of the distance to her shop, she refused to live with him.</p>
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<p>To satisfy his lady, he <a target="_blank" href="http://gistreel.com/?s=rent" rel="noopener"><strong>rented an apartment</strong></a> for her, and the move birthed more demands which seemed unrealistic to him.</p>
<p>As if that was not enough, she broke the camel’s back by making more demands without showing effort in the relationship.</p>
<h2>Why I dumped my girlfriend who refused to live in the house I built</h2>
<p><em>Feels like we are really meeting the same set of women. I had this one that didn’t wanna stay in the house I built cos of the location. After so many back &; forth, I agreed we would go &; rent in her preferred location only if she would contribute to rent yearly. </em></p>
<p><em>She declined&; said if I can’t foot everything, then we can’t get married to each other. Oh yh! This is one of the reasons why I built my own place as soon as I started making money. </em></p>
<p><em>To avoid payin rent when that money could go to other investments. Cos I’m someone that likes to please his gf in a relationship, just not to break things up over situations we could have handled better. </em></p>
<p><em>I agreed to foot the whole rent. I asked her what happens when we start having kids? Would you contribute to their school fees &; other misc? She declined. And went on to use her father asan example on how he does everything in the house. </em></p>
<p><em>That is the kind of man I want, she said. Lmao that sort of motivated me a bit. But the father wasn’t even my agemate before he was able to start footing these things. I agreed to that as well. The straw that broke the camel’s back was when she said I would also be responsible for her shop which was in the heart of Lagos where she pays about 1.5M at the time. </em></p>
<p><em>I declined. “No fucking way!”. As this was getting beyond what I could afford that period. Out of ‘understanding bf’. I later agreed but gave a reasonable solution. Let’s find a good sized shop that doesn’t cost up to that amount. Its just about putting your sewing machines &#x1f937;&#x1f3fc;&#x200d;&#x2642;&#xfe0f;. </em></p>
<p><em>Here comes the stupidest analogy I have ever heard in my life. “God forbid, its like moving from a Gwagon to a Toyota”, She said. At that point, I knew this wasn’t for me. Before you say she did all of these cos she didn’t love me. Lol stop. We were at that settling phase. Met her parents. </em></p>
<p><em>She was just a spoilt rich kid that her dad put everything in place for her/them. Most of the reason why I kept accepting her demands. But she got carried away by that lifestyle &; forgot that she also needs to build her own home &; start somewhere. It was when I got out of the relationship I started thinking about how this girl wasn’t even worth my efforts. Unfaithful, academically poor, lack boundaries, unsmart. </em></p>
<p><em>But she gave me the best sex ever. &#x1f62d; another reason I kept holding on, like “Are you really gonna let this throat goat go? This freak that can split &; bend &; ready to make steamy love at anywhere we find ourselves? Someone else will be enjoying everything, You may never meet..someone compatible”. We were sexually compatible. </em></p>
<p><em>But marriage is beyond that. You gotta be with someone that loves, cares &; supports you. Someone that brings something important to the table &; not just good sex &; nice baddie body. The dating market is crazy. Yall be safe 10/10.”</em></p>
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