A Nigerian lady has taken to social media in disbelief after the man she just started talking to, a talking stage issued her a list of strict “commandments” as a condition for continuing their relationship.
She shared the experience in a post via her TikTok page, captioned.
“POV: My talking stage gave me commandments and rules.”
According to the chat, the man, identified as Richie, reminded her that he had previously mentioned he would outline things he likes and dislikes in a relationship.
When she confirmed she was ready to hear them, he wasted no time in laying out his demands.
He titled them “My Commandments,” and listed eight rules she must follow:
Richie’s “Commandments”
- Delete every male contact on your phone.
- If you’re going out, you must call me on video as you leave the house and stay on the call until you reach your destination. When you arrive, we will remain on the call until you return home.
- Stop wearing short clothes. Every outfit you wear, whether gown or skirt, must be three-quarter length.
- Stop using your phone too much. If you’re not calling me, you shouldn’t be on your phone at all.
- Stop attending Winners Chapel. You will now attend my church – Watchman.
- You’re only allowed to call me and your parents. And you don’t have to talk to your parents every day.
- Cut off your male friends. That one named David? Stay away from him. And the one saved as “Blood” – I know he’s not your real brother. Cut him off too.
- I don’t want to see you around anyone – male or female. I should be the only person you talk to.
Shocked by his controlling rules, the lady rejected his conditions and called him out in the chat, labeling his behavior as extreme.
The post quickly gained traction on social media, sparking a flood of reactions in the comment section.
Many users expressed concern over the red flags in the relationship, while others urged her to walk away immediately before it escalates.
See some reactions below:
adebisibolatito: “Single people dey suffer 😂😂wetin be this the werey still say am not done yet.”
✨🌬️violet🥀🖤: “Me: okay I will but every month you will give me 1m 🙂 if you don’t want me to go out with anybody then send better money for solo date then you can call on vc 🙂 my phone must not lack data 🙂 if you don’t want me to talk to my parents everyday then send them bett… More.”
feyisharaabosedey: “Abeg hold on tight a whole Richie fundz and don’t forget to tell him this is 2025 for God sake the rule are for his sisters.”
🤍^🫦: “The fact that you were patient enough to reply him is amazing 🤣 cause I for don block e papa from the first statement 😂😂😂.”
Arike: “Awww potential man no leave am sis hold am tight we no Dey hear anything for this side ooo😂😂😂.”
Carlis-bae: “Where and how did you meet it??, please post the remaining commandment and its picture make we fit avoid am😂😂, and who you wan leave am for???😂😂😂.”
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