A Nigerian wife has gone viral after sharing a shocking text message she received from her husband following a confrontation about his infidelity.

The story, which has been making waves on X (formerly Twitter), was posted through an anonymous link.

In her post, the wife detailed the events surrounding her troubled marriage.

She revealed that after catching her husband cheating, she reported him to their pastor for counseling.

However, shortly after the counseling session, she began receiving disturbing messages from her husband. One such message read: “Please, I don’t want an argument today. Make me a small pounded yam with okra if you can. I would also like to have sex if it’s not too much trouble. Should be home around 9:45 pm.”

Sharing the message, she questioned: “Is this how marriage should be? I caught him cheating and reported him to our pastor. This is what I started getting after the counseling.”

As the post gained traction online, many concerned users flocked to the comments to voice their thoughts on the troubling situation.

See some reactions below:

@Andyatunwa: “This simply means the woman’s attitude pushed him to cheating. After getting caught and going through counseling, man is repentant and being diplomatic to avoid arguments that might lead to more problems in the home.”

@Chef_Tee_: “God Abeg oo… This marriage thing ehhn, just do it with an intentional person..”

@claskamant51363: “I don’t like people who offend someone and try to make the person they offended seem like the villain. That is no way to solve problem. She may have 4ukd up in his sight inviting thrid party too quickly but make e calm down.”

@Ambrosevic1: “If he says he has sense by asking you to do that, you too show him that you some. Go and buy machine that will pound it for him in less than 20mins. Oyinbo don make things easy.”

@ChisomFX: “She was probably denying him sex, so he went outside to get it. Now that he’s decided to come back home, he’s requesting for it with the caption “if it’s not too much trouble”.

@NGBBTrippleKing: “But joke aside this isn’t too much to ask for from your wife if there’s actually peace in the home And just as men are advise to walk away once their women cheat. Women can also choose to do the same. But be accountable with your decision. Not tomorrow you’ll come and say.”

@leesiobk: “They should sit down as couple amd iron the issue out, wife is hurt by husband’s slipped out, husband just need to sit down and speak to wife tho the did has been done but wife seems like she still have a forgiven heart for the act.”

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On Friday, U.S. prosecutors unveiled charges in an alleged Iranian plot to assassinate former President Donald Trump and a prominent Iranian-American dissident journalist.

The Justice Department stated that Iran’s Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps (IRGC) planned the attack as retaliation for the 2020 U.S.-ordered killing of Iranian General Qassem Soleimani, which Trump authorized.

According to the Justice Department, 51-year-old Farhad Shakeri, an Afghan national reportedly based in Iran, was directed by the IRGC to devise a plan to assassinate Trump.

These charges were announced just days after Trump’s election victory over Vice President Kamala Harris on Tuesday.

In addition to the plot against Trump, Shakeri and two other men, Carlisle Rivera, 49, and Jonathon Loadholt, 36, both of New York, were charged separately for conspiring to kill an Iranian-American dissident journalist based in New York. Rivera and Loadholt have been taken into US custody and appeared in court on Thursday.

“The charges announced today expose Iran’s continued brazen attempts to target US citizens, including President-elect Donald Trump, other government leaders, and dissidents who criticize the regime in Tehran,” said FBI Director Christopher Wray.

The Justice Department described Shakeri as an “IRGC asset residing in Tehran.” It was revealed that he had immigrated to the United States as a child and was deported around 2008 after serving a 14-year prison sentence for robbery.

This latest revelation follows two previous assassination attempts on Trump this year, including an incident at a campaign rally where a bullet grazed his ear.

“In recent months, Shakeri has used a network of criminal associates he met in prison in the United States to supply the IRGC with operatives to conduct surveillance and assassinations of IRGC targets,” the Justice Department said.

It said Loadholt and Rivera, at Shakeri’s direction, spent months conducting surveillance on a US citizen of Iranian origin who is an outspoken critic of the Iranian regime and has been the target of multiple prior kidnapping and murder plots.

She was not identified in court documents but appeared to be dissident journalist Masih Alinejad.

US prosecutors charged a general in the Revolutionary Guards in late October in connection with a separate plot to assassinate Alinejad, who lives in New York.

According to the criminal complaint against Shakeri, he allegedly disclosed the plot to assassinate Trump in telephone conversations with FBI agents in recent months.

Shakeri held the conversations with FBI agents because he was hoping to obtain a sentence reduction for a person who is imprisoned in the United States, it said.

Shakeri told the FBI he was approached by an IRGC official in September about organizing the assassination of Trump.

He allegedly told the IRGC official it would cost a “huge” amount of money, to which the official responded: “Money’s not an issue.”

On October 7, Shakeri said he was asked to come up with a plan to kill Trump within seven days.

The IRGC official allegedly said that if Shakeri was unable to come up with a plan in that timeframe, the IRGC would seek to kill Trump after the election because it assessed he would lose and it would be easier to assassinate him after the vote.

The United States has repeatedly accused Iran of seeking to assassinate US officials in retaliation for the killing of Soleimani. Tehran has rejected the accusations.

A Pakistani man with alleged ties to Iran pleaded not guilty in New York earlier this year to charges he tried to hire a hitman to kill a US politician or official.

The State Department has also announced a $20 million reward for information leading to the arrest of the alleged Iranian mastermind behind a plot to assassinate former White House official John Bolton.

A Nigerian lady has shared a chilling story on TikTok about how her best friend took her clothes to a native doctor, feeling envious of her luck with men.

In the video, she narrates how her friend betrayed her, recounting a time when she and her then-boyfriend planned a trip.

She insisted that her friend join them, but things took a strange turn afterward.

The lady explained that the next morning, her friend confronted her, asking if she used charms to attract men due to her apparent luck in relationships.

“She looked at herself in the mirror and asked why she wasn’t as fortunate, saying that even though I’m slim and don’t have curves, I still get more attention from men,” the lady shared.

Despite these odd remarks, they went on the trip, during which her friend borrowed money that remains unpaid.

The woman posted the video with the caption: “Story time of how my friend took my clothes to a spiritual place because she felt I’m luckier with guys than her.” 

The video has since sparked reactions, with concerned viewers flooding the comment section to share their thoughts.

See some reactions below:

rhemanwaneri: “since my friend started wearing my clothes I have been borrowing money from loan apps ever since then but we are not friends anymore sha.”

moyeni____: “ahhhhh this is my story oooo. this girl stole my cloth ND took it to only God knows ND I was looking for it. I went to church that Sunday ND I was told that if I lost anything I should not bother.”

Gracious: “omo,i have a lot to say about my own friendship sha but lemme hear ur own first .”

Victoria: “Babes went through your page and you’re so beautiful ..I see where the hate is coming from lol.lots of love.”

precious: “I was a victim of this sheet when I was in sch Omo ehn .”

Molly: “Same thing that happened to mi in hostel Omor na God save mi ooh if no b dreams and church I run go my life for don end.”

: “Or make I start story time and gist you people my own cuz it reach to do.”

Favy23: “My own friend stole my phone and she hide it for one month,forcing me to date a guy that will get me a new phone,deleted my pictures and all.”

your ex: “reason why I have just one friend we have been friends for more than 20yrs we want eachothers prosperity.”

D4 NIEL: “Honestly you are a lucky girl cause I stumbled immediately i came across your profile, you are so fascinating .”

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Nigerian writer, Ese Walter shares her story, recounting her alleged involvement with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo while opening up on the manipulation, shame, healing, and forgiveness.

The conversation surfaced during an unexpected encounter with a woman who had also been involved with Fatoyinbo.

Walter, who had previously spoken out about her experience in 2013, described how she was initially charmed by Fatoyinbo during her attendance at his church, COZA.

Reflecting on her upbringing, she noted how deep-seated cultural reverence for pastors made her vulnerable. In her words, she had been “programmed to fear pastors” and believed in their moral infallibility. This background, she says, intensified her disillusionment when she later confronted her experience.

Over the years, Walter has had to grapple with guilt and anger, sharing how her attempts to confide in other pastors were met with scepticism.

Years later, however, Walter is now choosing a different path. Reflecting on her emotional journey, she says she’s releasing any resentment toward Fatoyinbo, acknowledging that the experience shaped her but does not define her.

In a moment of clarity, she opted out of participating in a #SurvivingBiodun documentary, realizing that continuing to revisit the trauma no longer served her.

Walter concluded her story in a Facebook post with a sense of liberation and personal growth, acknowledging her strength and resilience, saying, “I am nobody’s victim.”

Ese Walter recounts alleged experience With Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo

“On My Coza Experience And Releasing Biodun Fatoyinbo
Yesterday, I had an interesting conversation with this beautiful lady.
She had picked interest in me since we were introduced last year, I was about to find out why.

After trying to set up dates to “talk” which we never got around to, we met at a mutual friends event and she got the chance to engage me.
Only I wasn’t expecting the conversation she wanted to have.

Her – I dated Biodun Fatoyinbo for 2 years shortly before he became sick.
Me – Silence*
I didn’t know how to respond to this information. Like, what do you say to that?
She proceeds to show me their Whatsapp chat. Maybe to validate claims and then adds “I even asked him about you and the whole story.”
Me – hmmm… I didn’t date Biodun, you know?
Her – Oh!
Me – It wasn’t a relationship. He lured me into sex. I could not really explain what happened and there was a lot of shame after, then fear, then anger. Great anger!
Now she is the one who is silent.
Then she asks – Can you tell me what happened?
“If you don’t mind that is.” She adds.
I don’t mind.

I sit back and flashes of the events that led up to meeting Biodun came up in my mind. It was such a rush for something I wasn’t consciously thinking about.
I start from the very beginning of meeting Biodun and how the usher told me the pastor wanted to see me, few weeks into attending the church in 2009.
As I told the story, the things that hapoened, the events that led up to my deep reverence and fear for the man – it started long before I ever stepped foot in COZA.

From my childhood home, I had been programmed to fear pastors and see them as gods. They were not to be messed with… And if Titus 1 : 6-9 was anything to go by, they supposedly had certain qualities

Titus 1 : 6 “An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. 7 Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless—not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. 8 Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. 9 He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.”

I believed every pastor who preached on the pulpit had passed this scripture’s litmus test so I was not only hurt by my mistake but confused and scared.
I asked him to step down and seek help. I too needed help and left the church to a different church.

This other church is where I broke down one day during service as the preacher wouldn’t keep Biodun’s name out of his mouth. It was as though my sins were chasing me . By the time I was done with my story, sister girl shared something with me. I learned about white magic and hypnosis.

Well, not learned but heard how some of these pastors use these techniques on unassuming girls.
She said she was no saint. She had dated 3 big pastors/bishops in this Nigeria and she enjoyed those relationships.
I smiled.

I explained that I was a naive girl who grew up sheltered and knew only what my mummy told me about pastors. I also had a rich father so I never needed to date any man for anything financial as was the case with some other girls who shared their stories with Biodun with me.

By the end of the discussion, we were laughing and talking about equitorial guinea fowl and how randy some men are.
I thought that was the end until I got home.
I started thinking of some details I hadn’t considered back them.
Signs I missed.

Things I should have done differently.
I remembered when telling her about the hotel visit in London.
“Growing up in the 90s in Abuja, my daddy took the family to spend Christmas into New Year at Transcorp every year for about a decade. Hotels did not bring sex to my mind. It reminded me of family holiday-ing.”
This was the reason I didn’t suspect anything when he said to come up to that Hilton Paddington room.

I smiled at younger Ese. How easily he had planned her and led her down a path.
I also felt sorry for young Ese. How confused she was, fearing that God would strike her down one day.
I wanted to hug young Ese because of how angry she became when she didn’t get help.

The first pastor she opened up to asked her if she seduced Biodun
“Nobody will believe you.”
Someone had said to me.
“You will destroy your life.”
Another chirped.

When I saw how crazy everything was becoming, I chose to destroy my life and share the story in a blog for all to read.
My life was destroyed indeed.
Until it started to build itself back up
Rising Phoenix style

For nearly a decade I was trying to pick up the pieces, dragging others along my destructive path as I went.
Then last night, alone in my room, I had a lightbulb moment it seemed
It wasn’t that he did something special or weird.
It was that I was a naive girl who was in big trouble and I tired to save myself.
I have been trying to save myself all them years, forcing myself to move forward, desperate to forget.

Carl Jung said, “THAT WHICH YOU MOST NEED WILL BE FOUND WHERE YOU LEAST WANT TO LOOK.”
So I looked again.
I looked at the events that led me there, the friends that appeared, the ones that left, the buzz and awareness the story created despite the drags.
I sat in bed and said, “it wasn’t my fault and I can choose to rewrite that story.”
I can choose to release him.

The beautiful lady who spoke to me had humanized Biodun in my mind.
I realized that even him, like that equitorial guinea fowl, had his own demons.
And I believed all I heard about pastors without ever checking it.

While I didn’t feel any illl feelings telling the story to the beautiful lady, I remembered I had joined a group to create a #survivingbiodun documentary earlier in the year.
It now seemed beneath me

Those documentaries hardly do anything other than short term entertainment
Did I want my name and face and brand on it?
The answer was NO!
I spoke out loud, “I release Biodun Fatoyinbo from everywhere I have held him in unforgiveness. I do it first for myself and I also do it for him.”
And so it is!

This morning, I did an email to pull myself out of our little #survivingbiodun documentary. Thankfully no monies had exchange hands neither did I sign any contracts.

I can’t explain this part with words but I felt something release. Like my shoulders literally dropped and my breath felt steady.
For a moment, a very brief moment, I was silent then sudden laughter like a hyena
I laughed until I coughed a little
It is TIME, I told myself

Something is happening in and to me and while I don’t fully understand what that something is, I felt it had come full circle in that moment.
I open myself up to all the newness this season is bringing
This is what it means to be SAVED!

Biodun Fatoyinbo, I realize now, 13 YEARS AFTER, that indeed ALL THINGS HAPPEN AS THEY SHOULD
And I am nobody’s victim
Taaaaa!
Good night this night ”

Home owners of Ruga, a settlement along Airport Road, Abuja, took to the streets on Friday to protest the demolition of their homes by FCT Minister Nyesom Wike.

According to reports,  Wike had previously ordered a task force, “Operation Sweep,” to demolish Ruga and other communities within the nation’s capital to clear the city of perceived nuisances and criminal activities.

Leading the demonstration, renowned lawyer and activist Deji Adeyanju, along with Vincent Martins Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan, said the demolition was carried out with malicious intent.

Adeyanju expressed concern, stating that the task force burned many houses and destroyed property worth millions of naira.

He urged President Bola Tinubu to consider the plight of poor people who had been driven from their homes in Borno and other northern states due to insecurity in the region.

Adeyanju said: “There is no justification for this demolition. We are using this medium to appeal to the president to consider the plight of the displaced residents, who are barely surviving.

“Most of the residents here were forced out of their homes in Borno, Adamawa, and Yobe due to insecurity.

“Most of them are artisans trying to make a living. These demolitions are excessive, and Mr President needs to act to prevent further harassment of the people.

“We are sounding a warning to those in government that peace is only achievable if the poor are allowed to live peacefully. When the poor cannot sleep, it affects everyone.

“Tinubu should call Wike to order and stop him from demolishing people’s homes and reallocating the land to rich people.

“There is no justification for demolishing these homes and allocating them to the rich. There is no overriding public interest here because the community is far from the main road.”

On his part, Otse stated: “This is strange. The repercussions of this will have a heavy toll on Abuja. This area that has been demolished is not near the main road. These people have been rendered homeless amid the ongoing hardship in the country.

“They are evicting these people without compensating them. It is sad that the elite think the poor are not part of society.”